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Love yourself to live a happy and secured relationship

Learn to love yourself first before sharing it with others.  You cannot love anyone without knowing your worth. Normally we tend to ignore this advice thinking that the other party's satisfaction is more important than what expect in the union. However this can lead to boredom if taken passively.

Knowing your strengths and limitations prevents you from turning into a green-eyed monster especially when a flirt enters the scene. Surely you do not want to get abused while keeping the relationship intact. The other partner can either meet you half way or you walk out that door. There is no point of fighting for something that is not working especially if it becoming physical or emotionally damaging.

Every relationship undergoes trials. If you are not strong enough to handle it, you would not survive it. There is only three characters in a love story- you, God and your partner. If you want to complicate it, entertain everyone in the scene. Their advice can only make or break it.


If you are not sure of you want consult an expert or a spiritual adviser. They do have some tactics that one can use to extract effective solutions to the concerns. There some instances that you just need a mediator to resolve the conflict but do not try to compromise your standards during the process.